Always play with people better than you or you’ll never get better.

This is somewhat contrary to other posts, you know about everyone being equal. Well, sometimes rules oppose each other. If you play in a band with other people who are of equal talent of you, you will never grow. You will never be pushed. You will fall into a groove and never get out.

You may find yourself in a band that is a little better than your current talents. If this is true you need to work hard to stay in the band. Work on your chops outside of practice. Find your niche in the band.

The trick is to find that zone, just enough of a challenge so you hang in there. Not enough above your head so that you are frustrated.

Sometimes you have to modify this rule. Sometimes you'll have to play with people that are different than you or you'll never improve. If you're a punk, try a reggea or a jam band. Bring your skills, blend, them with your bandmates. Try something new. You'll be better because of it.